Re: "Server Busy" dialog

I am trying to prevent a "Server Busy" dialog from appearing:

"This action cannot be completed because the other program is busy. Chose
"Switch To" to activate the busy program and correct the problem.

Buttons: "Switch To...", "Retry", and "Cancel"

The dialog appears when I try to exit a program that uses COM with
Microsoft Outlook. It only appears if I close Outlook before closing the
program. I find it interesting that the "Server Busy" dialog will close
auto magically if it loses focus. (I don't have to click one of it's
button.)

I have tried using COleMessageFilter with mixed results. Excerpt:

COleMessageFilter m_oFilter;
m_oFilter.SetMessagePendingDelay(1000);
//m_oFilter.EnableNotRespondingDialog(FALSE);
BOOL bResult = m_oFilter.Register();

The SetMessagePendingDelay call does affect how soon the "Server Busy"
dialog appears (and it always appears, even if a long delay value is
used). If I use the EnableNotRespondingDialog(FALSE) call, I never receive
a "Server Busy" dialog (as you might expect) but the program never exits.
(The program normally runs with an icon in the tray.)

I am using C++, Visual Studio 2005, and Outlook 2003.

Any suggestions?

Thanks,

Frank